In Paul’s letter to the Philippians, he dealt with an apparent conflict between two Christian women, Euodia and Syntyche. He specifically implored them in 4:2, to “be of the same mind in the Lord.” The concept of unity was dealt with generally in the second chapter, where admonitions such as “being likeminded”, “having the same love”, “being of one accord”, “of one mind”, “esteem others better than himself”, “look out…for the interests of others.” (2:2-4).
Such an attitude is seen in kindness, expressions of love and longsuffering, and endless demonstrations of patience. Such a humble and temperate demeanor is disarming, and those who have it are difficult to dislike. This is at its heart an expression of humility. “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself” (2:3).
After using Jesus as the ultimate example of this type of behavior (2:5-11), Paul then encourages the brethren to “work out your own salvation with fear and trembling” (2:12). This work is to be done, as verse 14, “without complaining and disputing.” Arguments and complaints are antithetical to the principles Paul laid down previously in the chapter.
Of special interest and application is the word translated in the NKJV “complaining.” Thayer defines it – “1) a murmur, murmuring, muttering; 1a) a secret debate; 1b) a secret displeasure not openly avowed.” The word typically indicates a complaint that is muttered under the breath. It is passive aggressive. It is also indicative of a bad attitude toward authority.
Here is the application. In Psalm 14:1, David wrote, “The fool has said in his heart, ‘There is no God…'” Everytime I read that I think that if a man is a fool to say it in his heart, what do we call the man who has the audacity to shout it out in public! And yet, many today do just that.
Now, consider Paul’s condemnation of muttering and murmuring against authority. Have you thought to yourself, “Why, God, are you allowing this pandemic to rage?” Are you chafing at your forced isolation, and the problems that come with the quarantine? Could you actually be guilty of murmuring, grousing, or outright complaining about your present lot in life?
Maybe we better think a bit before we speak, whether in our closet or from the rooftop. We are blessed so greatly by God! Consider Job as an example. His wife at the climax of his suffering, encouraged him to “Curse God and die!” (Job 2:9). He answered her, “‘You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?’ In all this Job did not sin with his lips.” (Job 2:10).
“Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt…” (Colossians 4:6a).
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