“Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. 6 Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one” (Colossians 4:5-6).
According to these words from Paul, (representative of many other passages that affirm the same), Christians have responsibilities regarding how we interact with those outside the body of Christ. Elsewhere Paul wrote, “that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:15). In our passage in Colossians, this passage instructs us in our speech.
Walk in wisdom. The wisdom of the Christian is derived from God Himself. It is divine (cf. James 3:17-18). It produces the “fruit of righteousness.” It is not theoretical, it is practical wisdom. It brings diplomacy in speech, as it seeks not to anger, but to convict and to save the lost.
Redeeming the time. It has been stated that the phrase means to “eagerly seize every opportunity.” As time progresses, we have opportunities to interact with the lost. Our primary focus is not social, business opportunities, or anything else that have only physical benefits. God’s longsuffering gives us opportunities to save souls.
With grace, seasoned with salt. Our language in the presence of outsiders should align with the righteousness of God Himself. This is a high and serious standard that all will have to strive diligently to reach. In his commentary, McDonald states, “Christ spoke ‘with grace’ about grace.’” That is such a wonderful expression and succinctly states the standard. In our efforts to convict and save, kindness in discussing sin and redemption is of the utmost importance. We speak of matters of infinite importance, and we are to do so with lovingkindness and care.
The idea of speech seasoned with salt does not indicate dullness. It means our speech should be wholesome speech, with an emphasis on the spiritual. Salt influences for good, not evil. Slander, gossip, lewdness, cursing, lying are not appropriate. Speech that edifies and heals rather than hurts is the type of speech that should characterize Christians.
Knowing the proper answer to all. Wisdom is needed so that the correct words will be used in response to any situation that presents itself. Others will see our faith as we demonstrate it in our lives. They will ask us about it. Our response must be true to God’s word, and specifically applicable to the person before us. This requirement is expressed by Peter as well, “But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear” (1 Peter 3:15).
Christians, like everyone else, have many interests and opinions. If we speak without thinking, we may poison our opportunities to save. We must always be on guard as we talk to those who are outside.
Do you think about this while you are at work? Is anything you say likely to negatively impact your Christian example? How about social media? Is it more important to express your views on politics or culture? Or, are you careful not to offend unless offense is necessary for the spiritual welfare of your audience? In Bible class do you consider what impact your comment may have on any visitors in the audience? God expects such wisdom from each of us.
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