The Greek word kosmios is interesting, occurring only twice in the New Testament, both times in Paul’s first letter to Timothy. In (2:9) it references the manner of dress appropriate for a Christian woman, and is translated “modest.” In (3:2), it is a qualification for an elder, and is translated in the NKJV “of good behavior.”
Thayer defines the term, “well arranged, seemly, modest.” Trench describes the term in this way, “The well-ordering is not of dress and demeanor only, but of the inner life, uttering indeed and expressing itself in the outward conversation.”
This characteristic is important for an elder, but not for elders only. One’s dress and demeanor can be said to accurately reflect the Lord only if it is seemly. The Christian is always to act, dress, speak in ways that are appropriate. This takes thought, effort and self-control.
You have heard the criticism, “Well that was completely inappropriate!” The Christian who shows good behavior always does what is seemly or appropriate for the situation. He always says the right thing, he always takes the appropriate action, always makes the proper decision. It is a part of his character. This trait comes naturally to some, but it certainly can be added through the process of growth and maturity (cf. 2 Peter 1:5-7).
What you are on the inside is exposed by your outward actions. Good behavior starts in the heart!
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